Abrams & Associates

Managing behavior in our children is about being mindful and clear about your systems. If you set yourselves up to negotiate and argue, you might find yourselves angry and exhausted. Stop the “let’s make a deal” parenting. Set up rules for all routine behavioral expectations and transitions, such as bed time, getting ready in the […]

How would a person learn to manage feelings after much practice in detachment and distraction? Why learn to feel? Doe that not get us into trouble? Is it not better to strengthen one’s self by NOT feeling? Conditioning one’s self to avoid feelings is never a good thing. We become symptomatic and best and at […]